What’s Wrong With Me?

IMG_3036That’s what a friend of mine asked me over lunch the other day……

What?! Wait….Hold up…. You think there’s something wrong with moi

Now at this point I could do one of two things: smack the shit out of her or listen to what she had to say.  Well, if you know me, you know I’ve been working on being more patient…..so I listened.  When she was done, I decided she was crazy to have even put these words together let alone say them out loud.  I was told: You’re beautiful, a great Mom, love sports, successful, you like to go out and have fun…..why are you still single?  See what I mean….cray-cray!!!

Why should something be wrong with me?  What if I was one of those girls that was so jaded and never wanted to be in a relationship again? (btw..I’m not)  What if I didn’t want to play the dating games anymore?  What if I’m just enjoying the single life?  

Here’s the deal: I have STANDARDS!!!!!  I know I’ve been single for a while, but being in a relationship doesn’t define who I am.  Don’t get me wrong, I go out every once in a while—who doesn’t?  I don’t sleep around–never have.  I actually enjoy spending time by myself—on occasion.  I’m the girl who can dress up for a wedding and leave during the reception to catch a football game.  The girl who can sip wine at a formal cocktail party and throw back whiskey shots during the big game. 

IMG_3022Why can’t I have the best of both worlds?  Why should I have to settle for less? (been there, done that–divorced it!!)  I know who I am and refuse to adjust myself in order for you to think I’m normal. 

I’m a Mom first, I laugh loudly, I drink socially, I love sports, and I curse like a sailor! 

If you can’t handle the basics along with everything else, you don’t need to be around—point blank period.  Why should I waste my time? 

So no, my BFF, there’s nothing wrong with me.  I’m exactly the way I should be: Single & Freaking FABULOUS!  The only BS I need in my life is bags and shoes.  

Although my facebook relationship status doesn’t mirror yours….I might actually be happier!!! 

xoxo ~ D

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